dun get any wrong idea. it is still a beautiful picutre painted for us. just that, recently a few friends of mine encountered some downs in their r/s. once again, it made me ponder why do two people want to get together in the very first place? is it just to love, or is it to iron out their differences and compromise to a beautiful ending, or is it to pinpoint each other's flaws and hurl harsh words at each other by the end of the day?

during the courtship, the guys are always so uptight about the girls. they can go on extra miles for the girls. but what happened to that drive when they enter a relationship. fewer honey words, no more sweet nothings whispered, fewer or no more surprises, no more extra understanding showered when things go wrong. maybe both parties are unconsciously taking each other for granted? hmm... common human beings' mistake?